Jose Mourinho has revealed Manchester United are unlikely to add to their squad in the January transfer window, but rather sell some under performing players to raise funds to land their key names this summer.
According to the Mirror, Atletico Madrid’s Antoine Griezmann, Benfica duo Victor Lindelof and Nelson Semedo and Monaco’s Tiemoue Bakayoko are among United’s summer targets.
With Morgan Schneiderlin joining Everton for £22million and Memphis Depay set to follow him out of Old Trafford this month, United are in a bettter shape to compete in the transfer market.
The Manager made the revelation in a chat with Sport TV saying: “I am convinced that in this winter market we will be sellers and not buyers.
“We want to raise pounds to attack in the summer, as we did this year with the contract of four players.”
Executive vice-chairman Ed Woodward and club owners the Glazers have backed Mourinho but clearly also want to recoup money to put into the kitty for the summer of 2017 swoops.
Monday, 16 January 2017
See players Mourinho plan to buy and sell this summer.
Read full story!! Pastor arrested for predicting Mugabe of Zambia's death
Police in Zimbabwe have arrested a pastor who prophesied that longtime Zimbabwean President, Robert Mugabe would die on October 17, 2017. Pastor Patrick Mugzada made the prophecy last week and was arrested today after a court appearance in a separate case for disrespecting Zimbabwe’s flag.
The Pastor, in his predictions for 2017, told his congregation, “God said to me, this coming year 2017 the President is dying and he told me he is dying on the 17th of October. Like I said earlier, I am not happy for somebody to die but, this is something that is going to happen”
The Pastor reportedly informed his contacts of his arrest via a Whatsapp message when he was arrested at the Court house; “Police arrested me right at the door when I was coming out of the court. Right now I am at Harrare Central Police station for the prophecy I gave that the President will die in October”
Saturday, 14 January 2017
10 Nigerian Jobs That May Turn Female Employees To Runs Girls (If Your Girlfriend Does Any Of These, You Should Be Afraid)
In order for some ladies to stay afloat and get rapid promotion in their jobs, they may be forced to become runs girls due to the pressures from employees to meet monthly target and retain customers.
Without wasting time, below are the job that may turn female employees to runs girls
1. Bank and Insurance Marketing
This job comes with monthly revenue target that is very difficult to meet. By the reason of this, female employers might be put in compromising position whereby they flirt with wealthy men just to persuade them to regular deposit. They might be forced to honour night parties and hotel invitations by pot bellied customers just to source for clients that will pay money into their bank accounts and meet their targets
2. Bartenders/Stripper
Dating a lady that works as a club attendant can be very risky considering the fact that these female employees often get to meet rich and wealthy night crawlers which makes it hard for them to resist the huge amount of money being offered to them from these perverted men for a “quick round” at the brothel. The chances of a bartender girl becoming a runs girl is very high.
3. Waiters/ Hotel Receptionists
Many will agree with me that female waiters always are prone to becoming runs girls because some of them are not well paid, therefore, they source for stomach infrastructure by clinching with any wealthy customer that winks at them.
4. Video Vixen
When a lady becomes a video vixen, it’s just a little for her to become wayward. Some of them end up trading their body for celebrities just to feature in their videos while some of them end up becoming celebrated prostitutes just to ride their way to the top.
6. Beauty Specialists
Most of these hired hair stylists and make-up artists are prone to becoming runs girl due to pressures from producers directors. That’s why most men are never comfortable seeing their girlfriends or wives doing such a job.
7. Street Hawking
Most of those women selling agbo(herbs) and hawking alcohol drinks such as baby oku, doro webo, pakurumo, dadubule, muscular, ota piazza and opa eyin are mostly runs women because na baba alaye dey mostly parol them. This reminds me when my girlfriend told me she wanted to hawk agbo during her IT period and I began to rain curses on her and that she should consider me gone if she ever ventured into such a ridiculous business
8. Filling Station Attendants
As we all know that pump attendants are not well paid, therefore, some of these ladies may not be able resist the invitations of wealthy customers who ride exotic cars to buy petrol at their filling stations. I have seem cases when customers drove their cars to petrol stations just to flirt with them and satisfy their joysticks
9. Hair Dressing
Most hair dressers are usually very promiscuous and I still don’t know why.
10. Flight Attendants
Some airline hostess use their beauty to trap big men in first class cabinet by being unnecessary nice and caring to them. The same way Laura nutmeged Adams Oshiomole in first class cabinet. These kind of babes can never consider dating someone like me who doesn’t even know the road to the airport let alone occupy an airplane first class cabinet.
I drop my pen at this juncture
Feel free to add yours.
What do think?
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READ FULL STORY (SO SAD) What my wife to be did to me.
Dear Sir/Ma,
I love the way you treat people’s issues in The Guardian newspaper. I am well convinced that equally, you would give a better advice on my own issue.
I am a 31-year-old engineer, currently dating a 26-year-old lady. Our relationship has lasted up to four years and our families know about our relationship.
On January 1, this year, I went to my lover’s house and informed her family about my intention to marry their daughter by December this year, which everyone was happy about and some arrangements about it have started going on. But since March, my heart started troubling me about my lover. I became extremely worried for an unknown reason. I could not figure out what actually made me to worry about a woman I have been with for four years plus.
Due to the nature of my work, I travel out of the town for projects. Sometimes we stayed up to four months apart, but I never for one day suspected my wife before this time.
I began to feel suspicion within my heart and started doubting her. I even complained to her that my heart was troubling me about her and probably something was wrong somewhere.
Though from the initial time we started dating, I warned her that dating another man apart from me would have a serious consequence on our relationship and that she is free to inform me and leave whenever she does not want me anymore.
The restiveness of my heart became too much, so I went to see my grandfather and informed him about my sudden change of feelings towards a woman I so much loved and trusted before.
My grandfathers told me that it may not be anything to worry about and that I should call the girl and ask her whether she has been cheating on me.
So, I invited the girl and told her that she must tell me the truth, whether she has been cheating on me since we met. I told her that failure to tell me the truth would be the end of our relationship that day and that I am aware she has been cheating on me, but if she still denies it again that day, I will end our relationship.
I also promised her that whatever truth she will say, I will forgive her, provided she promises not to do it again.
She was denying, but after noticing that I was serious to end the relationship that day, she started crying and was asking me if she opens up whether I will still forgive her and go ahead to marry her, and I said yes.
I got the shock of my life when she told me that she has slept with 12 different men on many times within the said four years we know each other.
I became devastated and fell sick. After some weeks, I recovered and vowed not to do anything with her again. I have informed her that our proposed marriage in December would no longer hold and that she is now free to choose any man she wishes for marriage.
Now, our families are calling me names and begging me not to disgrace them by canceling the marriage with the girl, which many people have started hearing about. And the girl is threatening to kill me and kill herself if I leave her to marry another woman.
The advice I want from you is how to deal with my family and her own family to understand my feelings.
As for the girl, I have forgiven her, but will never marry her. I can never keep a promiscuous woman in my house as wife. I can never trust her again, because she is capable of sleeping with my driver and neighbours.
Regards.
Mmm fully back, see new conditions
Ponzi scheme, MMM Nigeria just announced their long awaited resumption a day earlier to their official resumption date via their official twitter handle.
The scheme officially tweeted their resumption with a caption “this is to officially inform you that MMM Nigeria i open for business a day earlier than promised! Let's go there Nigerians!”
The popular financial scheme which announced its ‘freeze’ in mid-December 2016 assured its over three million subscribers to resume January 14, 2017 unexpectedly resumed a day earlier, January 13, 2017.
The scheme via its website apologized t its participants and cheered them with it popular slogan ‘together we can change the world’, assuring them to have no fea of expecting any emergency.
The founder furthermore pleaded with the authorities and mass media to leave attacking the scheme.
“I’d again like to call on the authorities and the mass media: please leave us alone! Have mercy on us.” He pleaded.
Tiwa savage esposes her boobs in new picture
She is fierce, bold and beautiful!!! But do you think this kind of outfit is okay for a married lady and a mother? She might be in the show biz business but she also needs to put it at the back of her mind that she in Africa, where culture is revered so much and you are expected to maintain decorum in everything you do.
Not even in this social media age that we are in, where the internet never forgets anything you post on it.
What do you think?
(Read full story) Kanayo .O. Kanayo goes back to school at uni Abuja.
Though he already has actor, mentor, politician and even a National honour on his resume, Kanayo O. Kanayo can now officially add college student!
Yes, the Veteran actor has gone back to school to study Law at the prestigious University of Abuja.
Kanayo took to Instagram to share a photo inside the University premesis while revealing the good news to his fans.
He wrote;
“Hello People, For the love of you, I owe you the notice that I have resumed classes in school, the University of Abuja. Just finished with morning lecture, Law of Evidence, and on standby for Equity 2-4pm. #overandout”
Twins who died after spraying insecticide in their room. (See photos)
Twin sisters, Jessica and Jessilove Oduro, who reportedly passed away after sleeping in a room they sprayed with insecticide in order to kill insects, have been buried. The girls were found unconscious on their beds the following morning and immediately rushed to the hospital. Unfortunately, they were pronounced dead. May their souls rest in peace.
See the graphic photos from their lying-in-state after the cut.
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Friday, 13 January 2017
See pictures of a final year student crushed to death by a truck
A final year Dental Health student of Ogun State University identified as Blessing was crushed to death by a fully loaded truck allegedly belonging to Nigerian Breweries on Tuesday, December 6th. Below is the report as published on Facebook by Ibe Caleb:
"Its tragic how one loses an important person,still going through pains of the lost soul the worst happens........Today being the 6th of December 2016 a final year student of OGUN STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH TECHNOLOGY IN THE DEPARTMENT OF DENTAL THERAPY was on her way back from the bank to withdraw her project money and the little feeding allowance attached to it, got crushed by the NIGERIAN CONSOLI DATED BREWERIES TRUCK loaded with lots of alcoholic drinks i.e 33,Goldberg...... Funny enough before the arrival of the students down to the accident scene,the Nigerian Consolidated Breweries officials had called the attention of soldiers of ILESE Barracks who shot speedily at students,as a matter of fact students got injured especially females students,as if that wasn't enough the soldiers of ilese barracks invaded the school premises and still shot at the students....CORRUPTION which was the leading theme in Nigeria as a whole was evident in the DEAN OF STUDENT
AFFAIRS OF OGUN STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH....How much longer do we have to live like this?? As i write now 9 students of OGUN STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH ILESE IJEBU are currently in the hospital and then in tears and trauma i ask this question....WHERE IS NIGERIA GOING??WHY CANT STUDENTS HAVE A SAY??MUST CORRUPTION ALWAYS SPEAK ??...........Talking about the NIGERIAN SOLDIERS whose primary objective is to ''protect the citizens'' left their duty post after being lured and bribed by the NIGERIAN CONSOLIDATED BREWERIES OFFICIALS to beat unarmed innocent students...95% of the students of OGUN STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH TECHNOLOGY who are girls were serious dealt with and striped naked....Tears dropped from my eyes when an 100 level student had an asthma attack due to the shock......I Thought we had a government??why???? OGUN STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH has been the most peaceful campus for 40 years now and won several awards where holistic health is practiced Will NOT BE MUTE IN THE FACE OF INJUSTICE,IN THE FACE OF TYRANNY ..As we all know JUSTICE DELAYED IS JUSTICE DENIED ...Here are our demands.....Firstly the truck driver should be produced and persecuted..Secondly the truck should be produced,thirdly an ATM machine should be provided in the school premises because if students did not have to go down to withdraw this wouldn't have happened...for the soldiers who beat up students should also be provided....A 48HRS ultimatum has been set -.... #OPERATION OCCUPY NIGERIAN BREWERIES LOADING!!!!!!!!! #CONCERNEDSTUDENTS FOR THE UNION...... #AN INJURY TO ONE IS AN INJURY TO ALL!!!!!! R.I.P BLESSING"
Very funny!!! Female Rapper Eva blasts fans for calling her Lord of the rings
Nigerian female rapper Eva slams back at people who call her lord of the rings because her fiancé proposed since 2015 and no wedding has happened yet
In her worlds she says “ it is my ring and if a wedding should happen it is my wedding ”
She expressed her deeply insulted she felt as fans address her as lord of the ring .
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See!! bovi blast a woman for blackmailing him emotionally
Bovi took to his instagram to blast a woman who claims he failed to reply her husband.
Below is a screenshot of his DM and wrote ;
“ The above woman has been going back and forth trying to blackmail me emotionally because she says I snubbed her husbands messages . After failing to prove that I did that or that I know him personally , I urged her not to DM me on his behalf again if she has any regards for him . She went against my advice . I suspected she would so I have our entire chat history saved . This is d tail of it . It ’ s the dead of the night but this woman won ’ t just stop … .. now this is a memo to whom it may concern ; it ’ s easier to lie against me blatantly than to guilt trip me. If you try to make me feel bad I will make you feel bad . I lost my mum exactly 12 months ago and part of my anger is that she always let sleeping dogs lie all d time . Now she ’ s not here to alter my temperament anymore so if you come for me, I will hug you tightly ! We are all going to die someday ! I’ m not gonna spend my life manning the gates of anybody’ s Insecurities !”
Thursday, 12 January 2017
Read full story!!! I Lost My Virginity To My Father At The Age Of 15, But Now I Have S3x With Him Normally
Read The Touching story of a lady who got disvirgined by her father at the of 15, but she’s in love with him now, and they have s*x now, with a mutual feeling and not undue influence as ab initio.
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Boateng sued for unpaid 250,000 euros deposit
Jerome Boateng has been taken to court over an unpaid deposit of 250,000 euros ($265,590) as the Bayern Munich star battles to be fit for their Champions League clash against Arsenal.
A laywer representing the Germany defender was in Munich’s district court on Wednesday over the unpaid bill of a quarter of a million euros, plus tax – a deposit on a villa in the Bavarian capital.
The estate agent, who took Boateng to court, offered to reduce the sum to 220,000 euros, which Boateng’s lawyer rejected, while the judge has suggested the matter be settled for 185,000.
Now both parties have three weeks to accept the compromise.
Boateng’s lawyer told German daily Bild that the footballer was prevented from appearing in court in person “due to other appointments”.
The defender underwent an operation on his right shoulder on December 20 and faces a race against time to be fit for Bayern’s Champions League last 16 clash at home to Arsenal on February 15 with the away leg on March 7.
According to magazine Kicker, which spoke to the surgeon who operated on the Germany star, Boateng will not be fit until the start of March.
Bayern coach Carlo Ancelotti had originally expected to have the centre-back fit after the winter break, which ends on January 20 when Bundesliga leaders Bayern are away to Freiburg.
Wednesday, 11 January 2017
Ed Sheeran sets new Spotify record for one-day streams
Ed Sheeran has set a new record for one-day streams on digital music service, Spotify.
The Grammy Awaes winner achieved that feat with both of his comeback singles, ‘ Castle On The Hill’ and ‘Shape Of You’ . The singles will precede the release of his third album, entitled ‘÷’, which will arrive later in the year.
Both songs smashed the existing Spotify record for one-day streams, which was previously held by One Direction‘s song ‘Drag Me Down’, which pulled in 4,759,698 plays on July 31 2015. The boyband had previously broken the record held by rapper Wiz Khalifa, who had 4.26 million streams in 24 hours for his song ‘See You Again’ on April 17 2015.
Congrats to him.
See photos!! This is why some ladies will never get married
BIG SHAME!! This is the reason why many LADIES will NEVER get MARRIED…….RECKLESS behaviours are to BLAME .. See these shocking PHOTOs. ….. Can you marry any of these LADIEs?????
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Read full story. Shocking!! I Can not Do Without S** - 16yr Old Girl Confesses
A 16-year old girl who was a victim of sexual abuse has made a shocking confession, saying that she cannot do without having s*x with men daily.
She narrated how an old man, who was their neighbour at Mile 12, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria, lured her into s*x at seven and since then she cannot resist having s*x everyday.
The primary two pupil said if she did not see any man to have s*x with her in her area, she would go to a popular under bridge at Mile 12 Lagos and beg for s*x from touts.
She said she came from Enugu state to Lagos to live with her aunt after the death of her father.
Her case has become so serious that she had to be referred to an NGO, Community Health Support and Empowerment Initiative, COHSAEI, which has taken up the challenge to rehabilitate her.
The little girl said she was lured into s*x by a man she called Baba who lived with her aunt in the same compound.
She said the man (Baba) usually called her to his apartment whenever his wife and her aunt were not around and will put his finger inside her private part.
“He will tell me to come back home immediately our school closes andwhen I reach home he will be waiting for me to finger my honeypot,” she narrated.
She said with time he started having real s*x with her. She said when the man that initiated her into it moved out of their area, she resorted to meeting other men in the area without her aunt knowing.
She said she has become addicted to s*x and cannot do without it.
“When I desire s*x and I do not see anybody to do it in my area, I will go under the bridge and beg the touts to do it for me,” she said.
Her predicament came when she confessed to her teacher what she was going through after the teacher noticed some abnormal behaviour in her. The teacher contacted her aunt who contacted an NGO for assistance.
The programme coordinator of the NGO, Mrs. Priscilla Ingbia, noted that her case was very pathetic because of her age. She said her group took up the challenge to rehabilitate her because it was clear if nothing was done urgently her future was in danger.
She said her organisation has started the process of rehabilitating her by carrying out series of tests on her to ascertain her health conditions.
Ingbia stressed the urgent need to relocate her from her present environment and start a new life for her.
She said her organisation has not been able to do so because of thefinancial cost of doing so.
How to cook egusi mixed with vegetables soup
Recipe for 4 servings
• 2 smoked catfish
• 1 kilogramme of lean beef
• 3 bunches of waterleaves (washed, shredded)
• 2 bunches of ugu (Pumpkin) leaves (washed, shredded)
• 2 small stockfish
• 3 cups of (melon) egusi (ground)
• 2 tablespoons of ground crayfish
• 1 onion (shredded)
• 4 red pepper (ground)
Method
Wash, salt, season, and cook the beef, stockfish and fish until the meat is quite tender. Continue the boiling and add the palm oil, crayfish, pepper and the onions, boil for another three minutes. Stir and add the ground egusi , cover and simmer for two minutes, before adding the shredded waterleaves and
ugu leaves. Stir thoroughly and simmer for two minutes. Remove from heat and serve alongside hot iyan, that is, pounded yam.
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Read full story as Terry G travels oversees for the first time
At long last, after many years of trying, Terry G has been granted access to America.
This is the first time Terry G has entered into the country in the 10 years he has been known in the entertainment industry, unlike his colleagues.
The singer has reportedly been denied an American visa on several occasions, until now.
Reports exclusively has it that the rapper is currently in the United States, just in time for president-elect, Donald Trumps inuaguration.
According to source, Terry G is in America for his first ever US tour as he will be performing in some of the states in the country.
This is definitely a milestone for him but knowing his history, we hope he doesn’t botch this opportunity.
Big congrats to him.
See how!!! Nigerian Artists killed AKON's career
American born, Senegalese singer, rapper, producer, actor and song writer, Aliaume Damala Badara Akon Thiam better known as Akon is one artiste whose works transcends boundaries and barriers. His quick rise in the buzzling American music industry is very fascinating considering the fact that he just came out of prison when he decided to go into music. He rose to prominence with his first single “ Locked Up” from his debut album “ Trouble ” and he went on to become a household name that every artistes wanted to work with him.
Akon’s music career spanned over a decade and his achievements are impressive. With four albums released from 2004 till date, the singer has been able to remain relevant in his music and other spheres of life.
As impressive as his achievements are let’s not forget that most of this records and achievements were within a certain period of his earlier career when everything was still going rosy for the pop singer. There are rumours and hearsays abour the singers career to have dwindled over the years due to his close association with Nigerian artistes. Akon fell in love with Nigerian music and he showed interest in working with Nigerian artistes which led to collaborating with almost any Nigerian artistes that comes his way. His first collaboration with a Nigerian artiste was with Wizkid on a remix of his song. He later went on to sign Nigerian duo P-Square and they did a song together featuring May D titled “ Chop My Money “. His recent collaboration was with B-Red for the song “ Cucumber“.
Do you believe Akon’s career has declined due to his association with Nigerian artistes? Could it be that he made himself too conventional with Nigerians? I really don’t know what came about this thought but I’ve heard it almost everytime Akon’s music careers topic comes up. I have decided to throw this topic to the floor and let our esteem Naijaloadedites share their opinion on what they think if they believe it’s true or do you think his music career was already dwindling before he began to associate himself with Nigerian artistes and it’s all just a superstitious talk?
Share your thoughts below, we would love to hear from you.
Tuesday, 10 January 2017
See Who Messi and Ronaldo Voted for in FIFA Awards
It’s no longer news that
Cristiano Ronaldo beat Lionel Messi to win this year’s inaugural FIFA Best Player Award. What’s news was how neither of football’s biggest stars named each other in their top three list.
For Ronaldo, he named
Gareth Bale as his player of the year ahead of Real Madrid teammates Luke Modric and Sergio Ramos .
Messi, meanwhile, named hunting partner Luis Suarez as his top pick after a year of spectacular goalscoring feats.
Neymar slotted into his second spot, rounding out the ‘MSN’ love-in, while Barca legend Andres Iniesta could only worm his way into third place on his long-time teammate’s list.
Are you an Adult? Check this list to see if you qualify to be an adult
Your age dose not necessarily tell if you are an Adult, before you call yourself an adult, you check out this post and see if you are guilty of any of them. If you are guilty of 5 of them and above, then you should grow up.
1. Don't be an Idiot generally.
2. If you must drive, don’t drink... See 1 above.
3. Take responsibility of how your life turns out. Don't expect too much frm people.
4. Stop talking about other people so much and maybe stop talking so much...
5. Be disciplined... Save a little at a time. Discipline is essential for living a grown up life.
6. Do not go to weddings and crash them... Let not your appetite control and embarrass you.
7. Be on time every time.
8. Be real friends with real people who exist off internet... 70% of ur close friends are onliners... You need help!!! (Not undermining the fact that there are still a few great pple u meet on social media apps like Instagram, Medium. Com and whatsapp} that you may not meet in reality.
9.Put more effort into listening.
10. Learn to cook, It is a basic survival skill, besides it makes you look good when you can do it well.
11. If you are upset, say you are and let it go. Grudges are poisonous.
12. Take Yourself out often and tell Yourself the truth always.
13. Accept who u are... Improve who u are to become what you should be=A Better , Greater You!
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Monday, 9 January 2017
See photos as no pants day is celebrated all over the world
The annual No Pants Subway Ride Organized by Improv Everywhere since 2002 and featured seven pantless participants has hit many like fever as it was observed this year.
This year’s event took place last Sunday. Subway riders in Chicago and other cities around the world got an eyeful when their fellow transit users stripped down to their underwear.
According to the group, tens of thousands of people in more than 60 cities and 25 countries left their pants at home last year and walked almost n*ked while riding the train.
What are the rules? According to Improv Everywhere, “Random passengers board a subway car at separate stops in the middle of winter without pants. The participants behave as if they do not know each other, and they all wear winter coats, hats, scarves, and gloves. The only unusual thing is their lack of pants.”
Though the event began in New York, people in cities from Portland to Paris to Prague are planning to participate this year.
How i fell in love with funke Akindele JJC speaks
Popular rapper, born Abdul Rasheed Bello, fondly called JJC Skillz, has revealed he fell in love with his wife, ace actress, Funke Akindele, at first sight.
Skillz also shared his opinion about the belief that celebrities’ marriages do not last.
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Speaking with the Punch, he said “Absolutely, it was an instant connection. In fact, it was love at first sight. I saw her, she saw me and, we saw stars. From that point on, everything was aligned.
“Ask every single man that is married, they will tell you the same thing. It is the same qualities that every man wants in a woman.
“To be honest, I do not want to talk about my personal life. My wife is my baby and I cherish her a lot. If I start giving you all the secrets, people may want to snatch her from me.
“The truth is I work really hard all the time, and a lot of the people I dated in the past used to complain that I did not devote time to them. But now, I have found my better-half who works as hard as I do, so it is a perfect combination, and the world is in trouble because we are the perfect team.
“As I am playing music, she is making me laugh. We have the perfect synergy, and what we are working on right now will blow people’s minds away.
“And I want to advise people in the entertainment industry to go and look for their better-half within the same industry, because it will give you more focus and direction.
“As an entertainer, marriage changed a lot about me. It has made me more focused. It has also given me more stability and peace of mind.”
On the feeling that inter-marriages in the entertainment industry do not work, Skillz said, “Pray to God for direction because I did a lot of prayers and God answered. Different things work for different people. All I know is that God has given me what works for me.”
“I once said I was wary of any kind of emotional attachment but in life, when you find the right person, nobody needs to tell you to settle down. It is like finding God; you may be a bad boy in the club today, and the next day, you’re in front of the church shouting ‘Halleluyah.’ Nobody can determine when that change will happen, and I’m very happy that it has happened to me.”
He disclosed how he met his wife, saying: “She had an idea called Jenifa’s Diary that she wanted to do, and she was looking for a good director and cameraman, so she called me to help her shoot the TV series, and that was how we met.”
Singles get in here!!! ADVICE TO SINGLES
When people are not married, they are viewed as people who are not responsible and ready to settle down.
In fact, marriage and wedding are so much exaggerated in form and words that you think something is wrong with you if you are not yet married.
As a matter of fact, a lot of people think that love equals marriage. All the sweet words, sacrifices, affection, passion, intimacy or sweetness of friendship have been placed at the centre of marriage.
So, if you are not married or you are a single parent, you think something is wrong with you. And that has made a lot of people worried. And with the sexual explosion, nothing seems to be better or sweeter than sex, which we say must be within the marriage vow.
We say behind every successful man is a woman, and same for every outstanding woman. We leave those not married under what and how they can be happy.
There are stigmatisations for people who are not married or do not have children. These labels are wrong and we have not got the information helpful.
True, marriage has its glories, but who says one cannot be happy, love and be loved and live fulfilled as a single?
I write today from that standpoint, and these things are true. For all the singles take note.
1. You Are Not Alone
The scripture in Genesis, where it was said that it was not good for a man to be alone, have been used out of context.
For God to say means that there was no other man, with Adam; all are animals.
Also, we must note that God did not create Eve for marriage, but for companionship and help. In fact, it was Adam who made Eve his wife.
As much as we say God instituted the marriage institution, I am yet to see where that happened. Don’t let anyone make you feel you are alone; look around, there are people. There are those who are married, but are still lonely and looking for that one satisfaction, that union of mind and soul.
2. We Need Friends
The Bible said in Proverbs 17 vs 17: “A friend loveth at all times.” That is what we need. If friendship does not lead to marriage, it is enough still as friendship. Why don’t we appreciate our friends?
I know a friend who said when he marries, his wife would be his best friend for life. And I was bothered. I asked him what the people in his life right now meant to him.
It is possible he is reserving his love for a person he hasn’t met. The love and affection of all the people around him right now means nothing until he finds the ‘Woman of his heart.’
What some persons do not know is that there are kinds of love. There is a love of a woman, which may not necessarily mean a wife, as it could be a mother or even sister or any other woman.
Then, there is brotherly love, there is a love for the law, our intellectual passion or love for arts or music.
We need a friend not bonded by any law, but love. Your spouse may be faithful to you, not because of love, but because of the vow of marriage made at the altar, which is not different from what you do when you enter a profession.
If you have good friends, be happy. One scripture that inspires this thought is in St John 13 vs 1, where it was said Jesus loved “His own,” which were in the world. He loved them to the very end. It wasn’t marriage that bonded them; it was love.
There are people that can love you, there are people given you to love. They are your world. Don’t be distressed and start running about looking for someone to say, “I love you and will marry you.” There are people around you already, those who love you, marriage or not.
Love is all that matters after all. If you are good with those around you now, you will be good with your spouse.
3. Not Everyone Will Marry
Sex is such a beautiful thing. But am afraid, we have turned the thirst to drunkenness. The desire is natural and okay, but we have made it intoxicating that we make most of our decisions around it.
The trouble in the world is that we are not content with what we have right now or who we are right now. More so, not everyone will marry, whether we like it or not. We could go for deliverance and have prophecies and match-making and all of that, but there are still certain persons that are not wired for the marriage thing.
Sometimes, I wish we just know that we cannot have everything to be happy. The social system and structure of our culture is our doom. There is no room for those of us who are least or weak or poor. We put up labels on people who do not meet the social strata that earn respect.
Many people marry today because they feel they will miss sex. They have fantasised that marriage will be kissing in the morning, foreplay, hard thrusting at night, weekend outings and vacations where you make love all day. And the way it is been talked about, you think your life is reduced without it.
For some, it is children. They want to have children, and it must be within wedlock. If the children do not come, I wonder what will become of that marriage.
My advice is, if marriage comes, good. If it doesn’t come, it is equally good. Never think you must marry to ever be happy or achieve all your goals.
4. Don’t Be In Hurry
Marriage will come, but be happy. Don’t ever believe that you must marry a particular person to be fulfilled. Yes, there are special persons, we know it when we meet them, but be sure. We should marry the mind of a person.
The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked. Anyone can love you, but the quality of the person, the way the person thinks and the persuasions of that person’s life is what makes the person.
Be careful who you commit your whole life to. Feelings fade! Don’t let anyone use any manipulation to woo your heart and make you slave to passion that are passive and temporal. Don’t be bound to the dictates of a wrong heart.
Someone may love you with all his or her heart, but if that heart is dark, dangerous and deceitful, that will be the colour of the love you will have from it. Take your time.
The heart is hidden behind smiles, gifts, gestures and courtesies. If you want to be happy, wait. God is the one who made the heart, He will send love and friends to you. He made you come through parents you didn’t choose, He will bring the right persons along the way.
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French Police have arrested 16 people in connection with a robbery of reality TV star, Kim Kardashian in Paris in October 2016. Kim was robbed at her hotel at gunpoint by two men dressed as police officers as she was in Paris to attend the Paris Fashion Week with her mother Kris Jenner and her sister Kendall Jenner.
The robbers stole jewellery worth $10.5m from the star but she was unhurt in the robbery. French Police say the 16 men were arrested following the discovery of traces of DNA at the scene of the robbery.
Her husband, Kanye West who was at a tour at the time of the incident bruptly ended his set, telling fans: “I’m sorry, family emergency. I have to stop the show. “
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Wearing a one piece swimsuit, the 36-year-old and her toned body strolled along the Dubai beach with her son, who was wearing a blue sportswear.
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